Letters to Me: Dear Robyn

Hey you, today's the day you will receive the dreaded phone call confirming the little life you are carrying does indeed have Down syndrome.

To be honest you won't be shocked after all you are 43 and high risk. But your at work and your in your office alone, How will you process this info, your first thought will be *how will this baby fit in to family photos* I know it's a strange thought but it's the first thing to pop into your head.

Your not sad, you won't grieve because that's not you I'm proud to say your strong and everyone around you will see this and take your lead and your friends will also be strong and support you.

18yrs on and your life is now very different, it's been a hell of a ride, learning how to parent a special needs child but it's been nothing short of amazing.

Your awesome girl will break all stereo types regarding Ds. She will be the person you strive to be more like.

You will have raised a strong black woman who inspires everyone she meets and fills your world with a love you never thought existed.

And as for those family pictures, she fits right in, she fills them with her presence, there's something missing if she's not in one. If I could give you some advice I'd tell you not to be so brave and strong, let a few more people in, showing your vulnerability isn't being weak, sometimes it's handy to

remember it really does take a village and you will see just how huge your village is when it comes to your loving your baby girl.

Signed an older, wiser you xxx

Written by Robyn, Ambassador Amarli's mum