You just got some news that you semi expected but honestly weren’t ready for and were in a bit of denial about. So unlike you to look into what it could mean but this may have been your best step! You will move forward with grace and treat him as a kid first and his diagnosis is just something to contend with in a somewhat secondary capacity wherever you can. The thing you need to know, I’m 4 years into this wonderful “journey” that is mothering that beautiful boy you see before you and I can...

Hey you, today's the day you will receive the dreaded phone call confirming the little life you are carrying does indeed have Down syndrome. To be honest you won't be shocked after all you are 43 and high risk. But your at work and your in your office alone, How will you process this info, your first thought will be *how will this baby fit in to family photos* I know it's a strange thought but it's the first thing to pop into your head. Your not sad, you won't grieve because that's not you...

Peta my darling I want you to know  I want to assure you that you will be okay. That moment your world was shattered and your life felt devastating. The fear of the unknown will challenge you, and it will change your life in many ways. However, you will be strong and able to do all the things you need to do. I understand that reading the ultrasound results and hiding them for three days until you could speak those words will cause trauma. However, you will be okay. The questions and concerns...